Gratitude
I'm extremely grateful for the many bright, interesting, and engaged people that I've had the opportunity to meet and interact with. This alone makes life worth living.
Geek
I fired up a Minecraft server several months ago. Mostly to have something to do with my grandkids. They connect once in awhile, but not regularly. I was telling some friends about it the other day and at least one of them is getting into it. Minecraft is fun, but being able to share a world is MUCH more fun.
Last night I bit the bullet and replaced the vanilla Minecraft server with Paper. It appears to be running much better, but we'll see over time.
Ponder
For quite awhile I've been pondering the tension between interest in the individual and interest in the community. I'm aware of the System 1 and System 2 framework in psychology, famously explored in Thinking Fast and Slow by Daniel Kahneman that has so much impact on our decision making. I wonder if the individual/community tension has similar consequences at a higher level of abstraction.
It seems clear that everyone does exactly what they want (this is fun because it's where people start to argue with me). What this means is that when a decision is made, then you choose between the variety of options that you are aware of. Sometimes your available options are really crappy but you still choose. Most people mistake this by saying, "I didn't have a choice" when, in fact, more accurately, they should have said, "I didn't have a good or desirable choice." It's an extremely rare, probably impossible, circumstance for anyone to act in the true absence of choice.
You will always choose the option that maximizes your self interest. If someone chooses to give their life so that the life of their child might be saved they had the option of not doing that. They did so because saving their child's life by sacrificing their own was the best option for THEM. While this is a significant choice, they had a choice and weren't acting selflessly. I believe that as humans we are unable to. They chose the option that best met their interests. If you hate your job but continue to work there so that you can pay your bills and feed your family it's not because you don't have a choice, it's because the alternatives that you're aware of are worse than staying in that job.
This is fodder for several more ponders...
- How are we made aware of our options?
- Why are we ignorant of some options?
- How are we made aware of the implications of various options?
- Why are we ignorant of the implications of various options?